Dear Someone: What if the reason every relationship doesn't last or why you've remained single for so long is because of your bad attitude?

Read this if you've been replaying every failed relationship like a broken record, wondering if the common denominator in all that heartbreak might be staring back at you in the mirror.

Dear, Dear Someone, _

I know this question feels like a slap. It probably landed in your chest like a stone thrown through glass, shattering the careful story you've been telling yourself about why love keeps walking away. You've blamed timing, circumstances, compatibility, their issues, their fears, their inability to commit. You've written yourself as the victim in every ending, the one who loved too much, tried too hard, gave everything only to watch them leave anyway. But what if—and I ask this gently, knowing how much it might hurt—what if they were all leaving the same thing? What if the person sabotaging your love life has been you all along? What if everyone who left was running from the same thing—and that thing was how you showed up in love?